Basically, in order to give up anything, and change one’s habits for good, one has to replace the bad habit with a replacement that is better. Or one will revert to the old habit, the replacement not being as satisfying to the impulse that it was meant to replace or sublimate or tame.
Anything a man or women visualizes about each other is a sort of perceptual delusion, even if it is based on sense input. I am starting to draw and catalogue my own delusions. This is so because it becomes a sort of mask or identifying characteristic of the character or personality that you feel is the truth, but may simply be a projection.
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